I was asked the coach for my next job resume and had noticed that I been correction myself for years. Ahh, I knew it better than anyone knows in my life! I been pushed myself to higher level but people in my work area doesn’t see it. They was so improved with my work and kept stay in my original title so become difficult for me to handle as same level for years.

The coach gave me a take of advantage ideas of my encourage with my job and people. Okay, let me say first on job. Many times, people who worked with me think I have DA (Disability Application) that limited to my job. Which is not right because I never had DA in my life while employs years. People not know that! No one. I repeat NO ONE knows. I not know about other DA people myself either. I never let my Deafness interrupted my job work. I was able to be titled to Executive Entry Level and had lot of experience with manage office duties. I forced myself to lower level since no one accepted my job opportunities.

Okay, secondly, People I have been encourage to be successes on their life and lifestyle. I remembered when I was young, tried to help with one friends of mine with her life struggled and seemed not work for her. I guess it was her mind and body doesn’t not fit her well. Of course, we both are young and new to adulthood year. We played softball together and wanted alike me because I am skinny and lean muscle. Then later on, I have gymnastics friend who has bulimia nervosa and wanted to be normal life. I had encouraged her to stay fit and eat rightly. She been gymnastics for ages but now she isn’t due to her illness relate nervosa issue. In my older year, had friend who is eating disorder and overweighed. She is sport person herself, too. Her mind and body doesn’t fit her well, too. Again, encouraged her stay fit, make communication positive and eat rightly, too. All girls are strong but their mind and body are not primary in their life.

I been struggled in my life myself too. I encouraged myself with my anxiety and mental spirit. One year, I lost weigh about 10 lbs. and become sick then took me to ER turned out there is no food in me for few days. My former roommates does not share meals with me. They left no food at home and made me survived. I gained back to my original weight but my age become older made my body struggles with meals and exercise daily changes than I have usually had when I was young. I still do biking, walking, skating, swinging, kicking, throwing and dancing. Keep Body and Mental Health going on job and route daily.

Anything adds???

~ DW