GLBT…AQ..PO? Identify, are you?

GLBT is Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender. AQ is Asexual and Queer or possible Questioning. PO is Pansexual and Omnisexual or Polyamorous.

Let’s talk about Polyamorous. I am sure you know that is. It is like many partners in one marriage.

characterized by or involved in the practice of engaging in multiple romantic (and typically sexual) relationships, with the consent of all the people involved:

People who identify as polyamorous may believe in open relationships with a conscious management of jealousy and reject the view that sexual and relational exclusivity are prerequisite for deep, committed, long-term, loving relationships.

Why this? I was asked by one of my dear friends and surprised me. I never believed in it, period. Wondering why she said that is because the way I am! The way I am? How is that? She thought that I have no interest in partnership or lost interest in relationship quickly. Maybe she considers me as open relationship or reject the view of sexual. I have no idea what is in her head alike. That surprised me lot. I can remember one of my ex-girlfriends do that all the time. She kept going one by one and lost interest in them. I knew why because she is Bi-Polar and required 24 hours sexual or active all the time. I tried to have satisfied her but not working. I met one of friends who experience alike me. We talked about our girlfriends, and it is hard to satisfy. Well. We moved and had new relationship. Hope they have good future. I have reached with my ex, and she seem doing okay. I missed her hot body! LOL

Okay, let’s talk about Pansexual and Omnisexual. There is two different persons on Pan or Omni.

Omnisexual and pansexual are terms that describe people who are attracted to other people of any gender identity. The difference between them is that omnisexual people are not gender blind, meaning they notice and care about the gender of their partners, while pansexual people are gender blind, meaning they do not consider gender as a factor in their attraction.

Omnisexuality is not gender blind. Yeah, many people are like that. Pansexuality is gender blind like me because many men wanted me and not aware I am in women relationship. I can play with men but not serious about it. No sexual allow, sorry!

I never like label me as Lesbian so preferred as Gay or Pretty Boy. One year, when I was about 21 years old and worked with cashier at grocery store. My cashier told me to go find a guy! She is Lesbian and not know I was in same world as hers. I was surprised by that so not bother talk with her again because I was actually confused at that time. I was CHRISTIAN and confused gay myself. All the years, I continue learning about labels and met few relationships that explained to me to understand better.

Write here and better relations with me!

OX ~ DW

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