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Church Goers

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I would make a vlog but seem my ASL isn’t clear enough.   I was telling about church and people who attends there.   In my past, I went to church in dressy code and no one would believe to wear the shorts or blue jeans but except farmers uses the overalls.   The Baptist would say, it is  illegal to wear jeans or dance.   I not know a lot of Catholic or Church of Christ myself, but heard few things of their beliefs and illegals, too.  I can not say no more.

Now I barely went to church but last Sunday morning, went to church with friends.   I looked around people before I would speak out that there is very flexible dress code and possible un-legal issue.    I just wore my pants and nice shirt, I believe it in right way but I admitted I wore blue jeans for church for Sunday nights in my youth years.  I seen few wear nice shorts and blue jeans in church morning…I watch the sign language interpreter who have tattoo on her forearm but not bad showing.  I knew few church has “rule” on people who have tattoo or their sex genders.

Why I said sex genders?  Because there is very tough for people who is in small community of church has written say, no tattoos, earrings, dress code, and genders.   A lot of church has open arms to anyone who need their care and support…to help them put back to their foot.   That church we been heard was bad example role for everyone that we been fighting for.   Of course they embarrassed me because I am baptist and am very flexible to wear jeans, has tattoos and who I am.   I disliked that chuch anymore, but I still stand for this church who support and open arms to anyone.

I met and seen pastors who are ex cons and has tattoos.  They are very aware and use their experience to show the role that no one has closed door for anyone who need us and our help.   I not see any wrong about them who are they or wear tattoos.    Also, met priest who is lady and preaching in God’s word like pastors do.   They are alike them and us…tattoos or genders.  They are very lovely people and us, too.   There is no enemies.

Love thy neighbors.

– DW

Development of Intersexed.

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I met one of my friend who is intersexed and he look normal to me.   I have research about intersex people who born with two genders.  It was odd to imagine how baby born with two genders and raised as adult as normal person.  I can’t imagine how it feels when development of puberty at teenager year, my friend will say, I am woman because had period and develops breast so he isn’t man.   I used “HE” because he is not yet a woman and not complete at sex reassignment surgery yet.   If he wish for me to call HER then I will at the time as when he wants.

I heard alot of difficult on child when they were at birth.   The parents made decided on which gender they want their child to be.   The doctors wanted to repair the correction gender for the child.  Many times, child raised and very frustrating at their development of puberty because got the wrong gender from birth from what their parents made decides or doctor repair the correctiom gender.   They were very bits about their experience with their gender and what they should be male or female.

The baby and grow up as child are not complete on which genders because they does not have lot of hormones before start puberty.   They are just child and part of male or female does not show much.  They are small and feel like child.   The intersex is same thing as normal gender child.  They can’t tell who they are.    They do feel who they are but always get the correction by teachers or parents.  Their name and their gender calls. 

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